I went out with a girlfriend last Saturday night to one of my favourite cocktail establishments. Seated next to us at the bar were two attractive women, a blonde and a brunette with startling blue eyes, probably late 30s. Athletic, fit-looking, with aggressively large tits. Clearly alphas.
These kinds of women are quite common here in Orange County, and one learns to deal with them in the course of interacting with the local female population.
One of them–the brunette one seated facing me–kept checking me out and saying something to her friend, who turned around a few times to look at me. The look she gave me was penetrating and felt as if it were a challenge. To what, I've no idea.
After a while the two women left.
According to my girlfriend, the whole time we were there the two women had been talking about the new boyfriend one of them had and the sexual positions he made her adopt, including a few references to her ‘back door’.
I hadn’t heard anything. The revelation of the subject of their conversation initially surprised me, until I reminded myself that women are like this, only usually they’re more discreet about it.
I have never been a big fan of "the back door" but surprisingly, many women like it and I am still shocked when they ask for it... I don't understand it - like women that get off on rough sex - I just don't get it... but I give it rough and hard and fuck them like there is no tomorrow... they love it...
ReplyDeletewhen I was in my thirties and living in North Chicago and older gentleman - a black man, ex-military and world traveler, set me straight on women with one simple phrase...
He said: Treat her like a ho, and she'll come back for more...
I don't understand it still - but it works.
DD ~ I've noticed this for a while. I attribute some of it to the betatude of modern younger men, some of it to the feminine need to be dominated and punished, and some of it to cultural influences such as Fifty Shades... I've just started seeing a hot 19-year old and rough sex was one of the first things she requested. It boggles the mind.
ReplyDeleteI cannot recall where I read it (possibly Paul Fussell's book about social class in America), but it appears that sexual inhibition is indirectly related to higher social class in women and directly related in men. That fact is consistent with my relatively limited experience and by the anecdotes of this post (if not the entire blog).
ReplyDeleteLBF playing out of expected role may be, in part, the secret to his success. Not always a traditionalist?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aVIA1n5ng4Y
ReplyDeleteMy last relationship was with a 19 year old (I am 45) and I was her first sexual experience... she was a somewhat shy and timid girl at first but by the end of the first month I had turned her into a sex machine - but it was more passionate than it was rough... and there is a difference... and I happen to like the passion - with the woman that brings that out of me...
ReplyDeleteI have been with women that fucked like they had something to prove - with no passion whatsoever - just pure animal fucking... even had some women insult me for not fucking them hard enough... I just don't get it - what do I gotta do - draw blood?
the 19 year old and I are no longer together - but she too wanted to experiment with the "BD" - with me... she didn't like it and a week after that - without any real explanation she ended it...
I think their just asking for noxious odor and disease. However, if that is what turns people on I think they should have it.
ReplyDeleteI think people are asking for noxious odor and disease. However, I think people should have what they like, so go get some of that nasty stuff.
ReplyDeleteFun site but you and your girlfriend are frankly delusional.
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